17:48 < abrnd1> wish I could attend your parties
17:48 < j2|wor1> why can't you?
17:49 < abrnd1> I'm in conflict because of indicators in my life about where I'm headed and what I want 
                to do, and its affects on others as a "role model".
17:49 < j2|wor1> who are you a role model to?
17:49 < abrnd1> I believe, if such a thing is possible for me to have these experiences, that there has 
                to be a significant amount of privacy
17:50 < j2|wor1> are you sure your "wife" just won't let you go?
17:50 < abrnd1> kids and some peers.
17:51 < abrnd1> she is my wife
17:52 < j2|wor1> will your boss let you go?