Jake Tungate September 27 at 4:18am Lol i just looked up noel and found the picture of the cute girl from the bank Sent via Facebook Mobile Noel Imair September 27 at 4:28am Ah, I see. Didn't know I was that accessible! lol Yeah, I actually checked out searching for my name and I was the first thing that popped up. Ha, I was the first Noel! Bad joke. Anyway, I'm pretty sure it finds people named Noel that are closest to your area. Yep. Jake Tungate September 27 at 6:35am You're the first noel that i've ever met. I love that name though Sent via Facebook Mobile Noel Imair September 27 at 6:40am Ha ha ha, epic win! I'd say the same about your name, but you know, I've actually met a couple of Jakes and Jacobs, go figure, eh? Thanks by the way, after a while it gets so annoying because I get people that think it's funny to sing my own name to me as if I haven't heard it every single year of my life. It's just not as funny as it used to be, call me cynical. Jake Tungate September 27 at 6:47am being cynical has it's advantages. Epic win is win Sent via Facebook Mobile Noel Imair September 27 at 7:01am Epic win is win? Hm, I haven't heard that metaphor before. Would you look at that, now I'm being cynical AND sarcastic. Jake Tungate September 27 at 7:10am I find it refreshing Sent via Facebook Mobile Noel Imair September 27 at 7:11am Now that that's established...this conversation is going nowhere fast. Jake Tungate September 27 at 7:20am lol well i was commenting on the epic win, are you a /b/tard? Sent via Facebook Mobile Noel Imair September 27 at 7:21am Depends on what it is. Jake Tungate September 27 at 7:46am do you have a cell phone? Sent via Facebook Mobile Jake Tungate September 27 at 7:56am You know years ago nobody had the name jake and now there's lots of jake's around. I'm not sure if they just up and moved here to slander my name or what Sent via Facebook Mobile Jake Tungate September 27 at 8:28am :| ok one of my messages didn't send. facebook mobile is a double edged blade I noticed you back when you started at the bank, after which I saw you at school, but I never said anything, because I wasn't sure what I would have to say to you, and I didn't want to make myself look retarded.. but you kept catching my eye, so I had to say something.. and now i'm probably looking retarded. although i thought i saw you looking back at me one day so maybe the silent treatment was working. Noel Imair September 27 at 1:51pm Yes, I do have a cell phone. Actually, Jacob is a biblical name, soooo...lol Silent treatment? Eh? Jake Tungate September 27 at 7:41pm Yeah i think my religious grandma helped name me before she died. You should text me sometime. My number is 5061567 Sent via Facebook Mobile Noel Imair September 27 at 8:58pm Neato. Wells, I really don't do the whole texting thing a lot mainly because each text costs like five or ten cents to receive and send. Meh. Jake Tungate September 27 at 9:11pm true. well i want to get to know you but i feel like i'm getting off to a bad start already! Jake Tungate September 27 at 9:22pm so what are you going to longview for? english? photos-a.ak.facebook.com Source: photos-a.ak.facebook.com Share Jake Tungate September 27 at 10:23pm Have you ever had a song stuck in your head when all of the sudden your friend starts playing it on youtube? Sent via Facebook Mobile Noel Imair September 28 at 5:58am Heh, you're okay. I'm going to get my associates in arts first then I'm pretty sure I'm going to head over to MU. Not quite sure. I think that I have had a song stuck in my head and all of a sudden my friend played it, but usually I told them to. lol So...no...actually. Ha! Jake Tungate September 28 at 6:46am Your esp skills are mediocre at best. I'm getting an assoc in comp sci and then am going to transfer to a university. I'm good at security. Sent via Facebook Mobile Jake Tungate September 28 at 10:22pm what do you do for fun? Noel Imair September 29 at 6:32am Sounds cool. I do a variety of things for fun. I make music, I write, I read, I hang out with friends as well as my significant other, and lots of other things that I can't seem to think of right now. You? Jake Tungate September 29 at 8:10pm what instrument do you play? i've played bass guitar since 6th grade, but now the pickups are screwed up. i love making music in the studio as well i think alot, about everything, i love thinking i'm constantly hanging out with my friends, although i need to cut back on it. i love to read, i like to talk, discuss, converse, rehearse, laugh, explore, rhyme, design (i used to do alot of graphic design, i had my own company, multiple websites.. now i write code for people, exploits, security patches, kernel modules, etc) i recently started writing alot, and that's also very fun! although i'm in english and can't decide what to write this narrative about.. >.> in high school / middle school i was able to write papers that would astound te i like to skate with my friends as well i like to travel, see new places, meet new people, be in new situations i love to learn Noel Imair September 30 at 2:13am I don't play any real instruments. I have a bass but I never play it. I do however play instruments using my Mac and I also sing. By the way, you know that talking, discussing, and conversing are all the same thing, right? Wait, you used to write papers that would astound...what? All you wrote was "te". Sounds like you're kinda full of yourself by the sound of it though. lol Anyway, sorry if this sounds a little forward, but what is your intention on getting to know me? Jake Tungate September 30 at 2:50am I meant to say 'astound teachers although i was young i could be wrong' i was halfway through erasing it when i sent the message. Sent via Facebook Mobile Jake Tungate September 30 at 2:57am They are the same thing! That's the beauty of speaking. There's so many ways to say something. Sorry if i sound full of it. Some are quick to judge Sent via Facebook Mobile Jake Tungate September 30 at 3:08am People should be more forward! It cuts through the bull shit. I was talking myself up a little but i was in the middle of erasing that when i hit send Sent via Facebook Mobile Noel Imair September 30 at 5:05am Ah I see. My question still stands unanswered however. What is your intention behind getting to know me? Jake Tungate September 30 at 6:03am my intentions! as i have come to find, you have some of the same interests as me, you're intelligent, you're beautiful!(which i noticed you first as the cute girl at the bank, then you were the girl i noticed at school who looked exactly like the girl at the bank! i didn't know if you were.. but then i saw you at the bank again and was right.), you cut to the chase, no bullshit, i want to get to know you.. i know you have a boyfriend, i'm not going to try to get with you out of respect for you and what you have, but i'd like to get to know you, and if you want that to lead somewhere, then it can.. but if not then i'm glad i can say i met such an attractive, intelligent individual. i'm not a player, i got my heart broken and haven't been with a girl since, i was waiting for the one to catch my eye, and i felt like it was you.. i wouldn't be able to live with myself if i hadn't at least told you how i felt you feel me? :] Noel Imair September 30 at 7:36am Although your compliments are flattering, I suppose, I do not wish to get to know you at all in "that way." I'm not sure, even though they are somewhat flattering, that I really like that you are complimenting me so much though. Wanna know the truth? First off, yes, I have a boyfriend and I love everything about him, it feels like such a sin to me to pay recognition to any of your compliments let alone accept them. Secondly, you're still in high school and even if I were single, I don't think I would date you. That one or two years of maturity makes all the difference, trust me, my last boyfriend was one and a half years younger than me (yes, I technically was a pedophile, shut up lol) and he was very, very immature. Now, I hate to place that same judgment on you, but I can see similarities within behavioral patterns and I wouldn't dare risk it again. By the way, you should not be so eager as to think that I would just allow you to "get with me." You are expected to have respect because you have no choice over the matter in the first place! I mean, you write these things with an ulterior motive! Read what you wrote! You wrote about how you wouldn't get with me out of respect (even though that would not happen in the first place) and then you write that if I "want" it to lead somewhere than it can. What? That's not respecting me or my relationship at all! Don't say you respect me by not hitting on me when all you've been doing is hitting on me! I really don't want any harsh feelings portrayed through this, but honestly, I really don't care for your slightly arrogant, cheesy undertones. How can you say we have similar interests?! I'm an English fanatic and you've had nothing but errors bug the crap out of me within each of your letters! It's like nails down a chalkboard! Geez. You're not a player, eh? I think you are, your demeanor presents nothing more. *Sigh* You seem like a cool person, but the only reason I looked at you that one day was because I needed to see if the person in the driver's license was actually you because it is necessary to complete ANY banking transaction. I don't want you to think that I think you're a bad person or even that I do not like you. I am merely telling it like it is, like I always do. If it's not too much for you to handle, we can be friends and that's as far as it will go. If you cross this boundary, I will never speak to you again and will even find someone else to complete your transactions at the bank if need be. Okay? I'm really sorry, I should have asked this sooner and made it known that I wasn't interested, but I just didn't want to be mean. Once again, you're a good guy, just lay off a bit, 'kay? :) Jake Tungate September 30 at 2:04pm They are not meant to be flattering compliments, they're just how I felt about you. All i've done is approach you honestly and tell you exactly what's on my mind, if that's immature or holds an ulterior motive, then i'm mistaken. Secondly, who's still in high school? this diploma, cap, gown, graduation dvd, alumni access to my former high school, and 28 hours of college credit seem to say otherwise. If i've shown immaturity in the way I chose not to lie to you about what i'm after, then i'm sorry, I thought honesty was the most important thing in any friendship or relationship. If I did not respect you, I would lie through my teeth to pull you from your relationship and then not even care about, not that you'd ever let anyone do that(although I wouldn't know, because I don't know you, and to judge before you know is just ignorant), i'm just saying. Now, as for my "errors".. i've been typing away since I was 5, I don't slip up and put thousands of errors in my messages, if the message is formal enough, i'll correct it for any errors, but a facebook message? Come on now! Nails on a chalkboard, sounds like you let the little things get to you I would never get angry or bitter with someone just for preserving a relationship with someone they love. Although I don't understand how I can be called immature for attempting to get to know you, I merely presented you with all the facts I could, if that's immaturity, maturity must be playing angles and games to what you want. I've known i'd be getting this message ever since the first one you sent, it was dripping with a message of "back the fuck off, not good enough for me", but I still kept trying to get to know you, call me stupid. If I sounded like an ass it's because I was walking on eggshells typing all these messages, trying not to be an asshole, trying not to get cast out before I was even known, but it backfired! :P the well laid plans of mice and men often go awry As for me being a player, if I was a player wouldn't I be with multiple girls? or even one girl? I haven't even pursued a relationship after my ex dumped me in january of 2007 because of the fact that I thought all girls were alike, I haven't been on a date or kissed anyone or had a girlfriend in almost a year.. because i've been waiting for the girl that strikes me as different from the rest, although I should never have let one apple ruin the whole batch. as I stated earlier, before I was called immature, I said even if nothing ever came of you and I, i'd still love to be friends with you, if that's so immature, then i don't know how to be mature. so, I'll stop hitting on you, and if my sarcastic undertones haven't ruined the mood, we can be friends from now on. Jake Tungate September 30 at 2:07pm also, the "astound" statement was supposed to be sarcasm, I did not convey it well enough, especially with only half a sentence in which to do so. 'tis my fault. Noel Imair Today at 4:40am First off, you just placed a judgment on me right after you said you wouldn't. Secondly, I didn't know you were capable of that type of lying. Thirdly, don't you ever think that anyone is not "good enough" for me or for anyone else, because I don't think that way, people are people and I am one of them. It is a sin to think so much of one's self and not so much of others. You are right, you do not know me, so do not assume anything, you could end up being completely wrong about every single thing...and you are, heh. Seriously, I wasn't trying to argue with you, so there really is no need to get defensive. As you were telling me, I was merely explaining my thoughts and you have no right to blame me if you abide by your own ways. You apparently have no idea what I meant when I wrote the bit about maturity. I'll leave that one alone though, but I have to tell you that the way you have chosen to respond doesn't help your case much. You're a very contradictory person. First you say you'll respect me and not hit on me, then you say that you're sorry and that you won't do it again. Hm. I am going to choose ignore that we have had any of this conversation. About being friends though, since this particular circumstance has made it a little awkward, I'm not sure how we'd go about being friends. I have a busy schedule and honestly I don't have time to get to know someone new right now, sorry to say it. If you can come up with something, the thought will always be given a thought, but right now my schedule is school, boyfriend, work. Jake Tungate Today at 5:37am I tried to clearly differentiate between the passive aggressiveness in the beginning of that message, and the rest of it. There is no defensiveness anywhere in the note, I just took each point you made and tried to show my side of it. But I can see if we just keep butting heads we will never be friends