bool GenderTest = false;
while(GenderTest == false){

   cout << endl << "Please type your character's gender: ";

   cin >> charGENDER;

 if(charGENDER == "Male" || charGENDER == "MALE" || charGENDER == "male" || charGENDER == "Female" | charGENDER == "FEMALE" || charGENDER == "female")

   {

       GenderTest = true;

   }

}