SEND:
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<iq type="set" id="msg_310255cf_eabda5ef_10">  <query gr:ext="2" xmlns:gr="google:roster" xmlns="jabber:iq:roster">  <item gr:t="B"
subscription="both" jid="onnetest@gmail.com"></item>
</query>
</iq>
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RECV [205]:
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'<iq to="o.gorter@gmail.com/Telepathy" id="343F248D" type="set"><query gr:ext="2" xmlns="jabber:iq:roster" xmlns:gr="google:roster"><item jid="onnetest@gmail.com" subscription="both" gr:t="B"/></query></iq>'
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NEXT TIME WE CONNECT


SEND:
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<iq type="get" id="msg_310255cf_eabda5ef_17">  <query gr:ext="2" xmlns:gr="google:roster" xmlns="jabber:iq:roster"></query>
</iq>
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RECV [994]:
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'<iq to="o.gorter@gmail.com/Telepathy" id="msg_310255cf_eabda5ef_17" type="result"><query gr:ext="2" xmlns="jabber:iq:roster" xmlns:gr="google:roster"><item jid="ross@openedhand.com" subscription="both" gr:t="P" gr:w="14" gr:mc="58"><group>Buddies</group></item><item jid="iain@openedhand.com" subscription="to" name="Iain" gr:t="P" gr:w="12" gr:mc="48"><group>Buddies</group></item><item jid="bzubhipheron@gmail.com" subscription="both" gr:w="8" gr:mc="34"/><item jid="janneke.gk@gmail.com" subscription="both" name="Janneke Kuipers" gr:autosub="true" gr:w="8" gr:mc="12" gr:emc="7"/><item jid="tigert@gmail.com" subscription="both" gr:w="3" gr:mc="13"/><item jid="jorn@openedhand.com" subscription="both" name="Jorn" gr:t="P" gr:w="1" gr:mc="5"><group>Buddies</group></item><item jid="mallum@openedhand.com" subscription="both" gr:w="1" gr:mc="5"><group>Buddies</group></item><item jid="olyerhoek@gmail.com" subscription="both" name="Edgar Olyerhoek" gr:w="1" gr:mc="5" gr:emc="5"/><item jid="joergen.scheibengruber@googlemail.com" subscription="both" gr:w="0" gr:mc="1"/><item jid="murrayc@murrayc.com" subscription="both"
gr:w="0" gr:mc="1"/><item jid="o.gorter@jabber.org" subscription="none" ask="subscribe"/><item jid="ttt@ttt" subscription="none" ask="subscribe"/><item jid="andrei.kotchanov@gmail.com" subscription="none" ask="subscribe"/><item jid="andrei.laperie@gmail.com" subscription="both"/><item jid="spalomo@gmail.com" subscription="both"/><item jid="tkomulai@gmail.com" subscription="both"/></query></iq>'
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... he ain't there!