hehehe jon1012 jon1012, when a relation is built up that way , you can not help it anymore but you can start a new one right it is nothing about being bastard or being a sex hero this is also the cause why my girl left me it was to quick so we could not develop real feelings to each over when you are good friends first then near friends then start something then it develops and then i don't think she will leave you so fast or ever sure it is not possible with every one but when it is the right one