[root@ /tmp] /usr/local/bin/mysqld_safe --defaults-extra-file=/var/db/mysql/my.cnf --user=mysql
WARNING: Found /var/db/mysql/my.cnf
Datadir is deprecated place for my.cnf, please move it to /usr/local

Starting mysqld daemon with databases from /var/db/mysql
STOPPING server from pid file /var/db/mysql/aaopwner.com.pid
061215 19:16:58  mysqld ended