Note: In this post I don’t explicitly state any thing, I just give my views, you decide! I don’t know why I am writing this but I feel that it could bring a change in somebody’s life. I am still a teenager! First let us start by defining what love is, many say Love cannot be defined or you should be in love to understand it so I leave it unto you to decide what it is!I basically think it is a human emotion which is often misinterpreted! Love at first sight: Is there any thing like ‘Love at first sight’ ?, Basically I think it is a search engine processOur sense organs like eyes , ears etc see a girl/boy and sends it to the brain. The brain searches our ‘desire’ database. If it finds most of the things, the brain sends a signal “she /he is suitable etc,” This is ‘Love at first sight’ which really is not the true sense of love! Processing: The human always has desires, a teenager is affected by some movies or other media, friends etc and thinks that he also should have a “girl/boy friend” and starts treating his lady or man in a peculiar way and starts thinking of them until they reach a emotional stability! And after some time he/she propose / say their desire! Decision: After the ‘proposal’ is made the opposite person is given some time to thing (Some time to think about his life :) Tips: Before making a proposal or deciding on it please read below, these are not rules but guidelines; of course you are free to make your own decision! 1: Think about your ‘proposer’ .Are you fit for him/ her? Vice versa! 2: Look into your parent’s eyes, think of your child age and how they brought you up! 3: If you have grand parents (Other elderly ,close people) talk to them simply (Not on the above topic) 4: Imagine that you are a father and your son/daughter is doing some thing like you, how would you feel? 5: Compare the number of people getting happy and sad by your doing! Which is greater? 6: Then spend some time and ask yourself which will be a good decision? Now decide! Ps: The above text is just my personal hypothesis! I am not responsible for any misguidance. It is your life you decide.