ClutZyGymNast93 (9:28:10 PM): hey
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:28:16 PM): colby?
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:28:24 PM): this is kayla...
UNCBoy700001 (9:28:44 PM): yo
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:28:47 PM): um brianna told me to ask u to c/p the convo she sent you
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:29:01 PM): matt called me freaking out and now i get to play the middle ground again
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:29:02 PM): haha
UNCBoy700001 (9:29:08 PM): nice
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:29:13 PM): o yea
UNCBoy700001 (9:29:32 PM): sec
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:29:37 PM): k thx
UNCBoy700001 (9:31:59 PM): um, yeah
UNCBoy700001 (9:32:00 PM): http://pastebin.ca/892046
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:35:01 PM): thx..srry to bug u
UNCBoy700001 (9:35:10 PM): Haha na its cool
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:35:15 PM): k
UNCBoy700001 (9:35:32 PM): Are you talking to matt?
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:36:13 PM): no... i was. He called me a lil while ago freaking out because brianna was "mad" at him and he didn't know why and he wants me to fix it
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:36:53 PM): but there's only so much i can do! 
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:37:01 PM): at some point or other they are gonna have to face each other and sort it out b/c i can't keep playing peace maker forever
UNCBoy700001 (9:37:44 PM): Yeah I told Matt brianna didn't tell me much.. just because I didn't wanna get in the middle of ity
UNCBoy700001 (9:37:46 PM): it*
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:38:10 PM): yea...thats prolly what i'm gonna end up doing
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:38:40 PM): i'm srry but i'm tired of sorting out their stuff for them
UNCBoy700001 (9:38:56 PM): Yeah something goes on between them every day
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:39:38 PM): i kno
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:39:48 PM): i've tried telling her that
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:39:57 PM): and that i don't think he's a good friend for her
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:40:39 PM): but as long as she's gonna try to be his friend i suppose i'm gonna be there to help her
UNCBoy700001 (9:41:43 PM): Yeah, I mean I'm here for her.. but he always has to make a big deal out of everything
UNCBoy700001 (9:41:47 PM): Even if it's nothing
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:41:50 PM): i know
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:42:06 PM): he's just a very radical, immature sort of person
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:42:35 PM): and sadly thats not gonna change untill, he steps back, looks at the big picture, and grows up
UNCBoy700001 (9:42:47 PM): Yea.
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:43:09 PM): but what you said in the convo makes sense
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:43:40 PM): and i've tried to tell her the same things but...i'm not sure i know any other way to get through to her
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:43:54 PM): any ideas? 
UNCBoy700001 (9:44:22 PM): Well at first I was kinda neutral
UNCBoy700001 (9:44:33 PM): But it's getting to the point where she needs to just get over him
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:44:37 PM): yea
UNCBoy700001 (9:44:39 PM): It's only hurting her more by talking to him
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:44:44 PM): yea
UNCBoy700001 (9:44:48 PM): Even though she doesn't want to admit it.
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:44:53 PM): exactly
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:45:31 PM): but idk how to get her to see that but i'm not sure she can at this point
UNCBoy700001 (9:46:08 PM): Basically it's up to her whether she wants to stay good friends with him
UNCBoy700001 (9:46:15 PM): But I mean.. it's daily
UNCBoy700001 (9:46:23 PM): They are always on about something
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:46:46 PM): yea...everyday she walks into us history and the first words out of her mouth are..."matt..."
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:47:38 PM): i started out trying to help as much as i could but now i'm starting to become more and more neutral
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:48:15 PM): i'm hoping that by dealing more with this on her own, she'll realize that he's not the type of friends she needs
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:48:33 PM): it'll make her face it but idk
UNCBoy700001 (9:49:37 PM): Yeah
UNCBoy700001 (9:49:48 PM): That's kinda why I've backed off with hanging out with him
UNCBoy700001 (9:49:53 PM): I used to hang out with him a lot
UNCBoy700001 (9:49:57 PM): With Meredith & Sarah
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:50:00 PM): yea
UNCBoy700001 (9:50:03 PM): But we haven't hung out with him anymore
UNCBoy700001 (9:50:09 PM): Just because when we did there was always drama
UNCBoy700001 (9:50:16 PM): and since then, there has been absolutely none.
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:50:31 PM): o yea...i remember ( i heard it from brianna's viewpoint)
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:50:43 PM): ugh ntg
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:50:55 PM): thats a good thing
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:51:04 PM): that there hasn't been anymore drama since the
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:51:10 PM): then*
UNCBoy700001 (9:51:29 PM): Yeah, it's nice
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:51:32 PM): haha
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:51:57 PM): also i've tried getting brianna to hang out w/o matt along
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:52:20 PM): so that maybe she'll see "o...i don't need matt around 24/7 to ...."
UNCBoy700001 (9:52:42 PM): Mhm
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:53:06 PM): its like she has to have his opinion on everything
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:53:12 PM): does it seem that way to you?
UNCBoy700001 (9:53:58 PM): Um
UNCBoy700001 (9:54:04 PM): You mean like she always takes his side, or what?
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:54:18 PM): sorta 
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:54:55 PM): idk how to explain it
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:55:25 PM): but its like shes dependent on what he thinks
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:55:49 PM): like everytime they fight, no matter if its her fault her not, she always takes the blame on herself
UNCBoy700001 (9:56:35 PM): Oh, yea
UNCBoy700001 (9:56:53 PM): Whenever they are in drama, she'll always put the blame on herself.
UNCBoy700001 (9:57:13 PM): I think part of the reason is because she doesn't want to go off on Matt even when it's his fault and start even more drama
UNCBoy700001 (9:57:26 PM): But I mean she can't just take the blame for something that isn't her fault
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:57:42 PM): yea...she wants him as a friend shes not will to do something that might compromise that
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:57:51 PM): i kno
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:58:26 PM): she wants to keep her frienship with him so much she isn't willing to do something that might compromise that *
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:58:34 PM): srry bout that part of it got deleted
ClutZyGymNast93 (9:59:24 PM): i talked to matt about that and he told me that she never gives him time to realize that he messed up and that by the time he realizes it she's already apologizing and stuff
UNCBoy700001 (9:59:53 PM): But I mean he should realize it's his fault most of the time
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:00:09 PM): so i told him then its his responsibility to go to her and be like..hey this was my fault.. not yours so don't apologize
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:00:11 PM): yeah
UNCBoy700001 (10:00:47 PM): Yea, indeed.
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:01:30 PM): i think, correct me if im wrong, its becuase hes too immature
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:02:22 PM): i also told him to start taking responsibility for his own actions and realize the effect they have on people (brianna)
UNCBoy700001 (10:03:30 PM): Yeah, I agree
UNCBoy700001 (10:03:34 PM): I mean 
UNCBoy700001 (10:03:39 PM): He never lets anything go
UNCBoy700001 (10:03:48 PM): Even if it's the smallest thing in the world
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:03:53 PM): yep
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:05:13 PM): hes got a radical personality.  He takes everything to the nth degree.  Even little things that normally would be blown off liek o ok
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:05:17 PM): like*
UNCBoy700001 (10:05:46 PM): Yeah
UNCBoy700001 (10:06:13 PM): Whenever he hung out with Mere, Sarah, and me.. he would always get so pissy over the dumbest things
UNCBoy700001 (10:06:18 PM): And then 
UNCBoy700001 (10:06:22 PM): He would accuse me of things
UNCBoy700001 (10:06:33 PM): And then like basically go off on me everytime something little happened
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:06:44 PM): yea
UNCBoy700001 (10:06:45 PM): And he realized I wasn't going to put up with it
UNCBoy700001 (10:06:49 PM): Because it was dumb shit
UNCBoy700001 (10:06:52 PM): So he stopped
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:07:23 PM): yeah
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:07:28 PM): thats a good thing
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:07:40 PM): and that is exactly what i think brianna needs to do
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:07:55 PM): stand up and show him that hes not got the power to walk all over her
UNCBoy700001 (10:08:12 PM): Ye.
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:08:21 PM): but right now, she lets him have so much influence that idk how shes gonna do it
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:08:56 PM): i'm afraid its gonna take something scary drastic for her to wake up and smell the coffee (ahh )
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:09:23 PM): but idk
UNCBoy700001 (10:09:27 PM): ye
UNCBoy700001 (10:09:49 PM): But I mean she can't just keep on getting run over by everything he throws at her
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:09:59 PM): yea
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:11:40 PM): i know that and you know that but i'm not sure how to get her to know that, rather than letting herl figure that out on her own (hopefully sooner rather than later)
UNCBoy700001 (10:12:01 PM): Yeah
UNCBoy700001 (10:12:16 PM): I mean, I think she realizes it.. but she doesn't want to lose him.
UNCBoy700001 (10:12:26 PM): Because she's so comfortable around him and she can tell him anything, etc..
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:12:27 PM): yea
UNCBoy700001 (10:12:34 PM): It's just 90% of the time there is drama
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:12:49 PM): yea and she doesn't want to let go of that other 10%
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:13:26 PM): however, i think its easier for us to see it because we're the third party observers while they are in the drama
UNCBoy700001 (10:13:53 PM): Yea
UNCBoy700001 (10:13:59 PM): I mean
UNCBoy700001 (10:14:01 PM): I'm good friends with him
UNCBoy700001 (10:14:11 PM): But he never yells at me for anything anymore
UNCBoy700001 (10:14:14 PM): Just because I stood my ground
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:14:18 PM): yep
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:15:04 PM): maybe brianna will see she needs to stand hers
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:15:38 PM): but for right now, with time this may play out and she will see thats what shes got to do
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:16:21 PM): but idk how to help her anymore rather than to just be there for her
UNCBoy700001 (10:17:14 PM): Yeah
UNCBoy700001 (10:17:22 PM): We could show her this conversation lol
UNCBoy700001 (10:17:22 PM): IDk
UNCBoy700001 (10:17:25 PM): Idk*
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:17:27 PM): haha
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:17:29 PM): that might work
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:17:34 PM): idk
UNCBoy700001 (10:17:38 PM): yea
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:17:49 PM): it might be a good eye- opener
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:18:05 PM): help her see it from and outsiders perspective
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:18:17 PM): an*
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:18:25 PM): idk...haha
UNCBoy700001 (10:18:30 PM): Yeah.
UNCBoy700001 (10:18:40 PM): I'm sure it'll help in some way
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:18:52 PM): yea i agree
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:19:56 PM): k well... i gtg
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:20:15 PM): i don't do well w/o the full 8 hrs of sleep
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:20:17 PM): lol
UNCBoy700001 (10:20:20 PM): Haha
UNCBoy700001 (10:20:26 PM): I'll get 4-5 if I'm lucky
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:20:31 PM): but thanks for helping
UNCBoy700001 (10:20:34 PM): Yeah np
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:20:43 PM): omg
UNCBoy700001 (10:20:51 PM): ..?
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:20:54 PM): b/c i kno she thinks ur a rele good friend
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:21:11 PM): o omg..b/c i would be a zombie w/ only 4-5 hrs of sleep
UNCBoy700001 (10:21:38 PM): haha
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:21:41 PM): haha...i've managed once on 3 before but i don't wanna try that again
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:21:56 PM): i was past the point of being tired and just sorta wired
UNCBoy700001 (10:22:02 PM): Lol
UNCBoy700001 (10:22:05 PM): I've gotten used to it
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:22:28 PM): haha...yea (i don't want to get used to it untill i have to)
UNCBoy700001 (10:22:36 PM): Lol
UNCBoy700001 (10:22:39 PM): Just be thankful
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:22:48 PM): haha o i am
UNCBoy700001 (10:22:58 PM): Lol, but yeah I'll let you go.
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:23:01 PM): k
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:23:03 PM): ttyl
ClutZyGymNast93 (10:23:05 PM): bye
UNCBoy700001 (10:23:10 PM): Later