20:00] rasmusrockergal7: whats up?
[20:01] R I C K Y 28269: well the short version is, elizabeth thinks i'm getting bored of her because i'm no longer obsessed with her
[20:01] rasmusrockergal7: you arent getting bored of her though are you?
[20:01] R I C K Y 28269: of course not
[20:01] rasmusrockergal7: ok
[20:01] rasmusrockergal7: well, just tell her that
[20:01] rasmusrockergal7: and be like, extremely sweet about it, almost to the point of being sickeningly so
[20:02] R I C K Y 28269: she says she doesn't want us to end up like her parents, who hardly ever see each other, don't really care when they do see each other, hardly ever go out, very rarely 'do anything', etc
[20:02] R I C K Y 28269: and of course, it's nothing like that lol, she's just exaggerating like she always does
[20:02] rasmusrockergal7: lol
[20:02] rasmusrockergal7: of course
[20:02] rasmusrockergal7: well, just tell her that it wont be like  that
[20:02] rasmusrockergal7: and be really nice about it
[20:03] R I C K Y 28269: she went through a phase where she thought i was going to leave her, just randomly and spontaneously, despite how much i told her i loved her and i'm not leaving her ande tc
[20:03] rasmusrockergal7: awww
[20:03] rasmusrockergal7: that is kind of cute though, i have to admit
[20:03] rasmusrockergal7: ok, anyway
[20:03] R I C K Y 28269: that phase lasted probably 2-3 weeks
[20:03] rasmusrockergal7: how long ago was it?
[20:03] R I C K Y 28269: umm... less than a month ago probably
[20:03] rasmusrockergal7: oh
[20:03] rasmusrockergal7: wow
[20:03] R I C K Y 28269: the thing that snapper her out of it was her mom lol
[20:03] rasmusrockergal7: haha
[20:03] rasmusrockergal7: thats cool though
[20:03] R I C K Y 28269: we got caught sitting together on the front steps talking at 4 am on a school morning
[20:04] rasmusrockergal7: ooops
[20:04] R I C K Y 28269: and so she sat us down and elizabeth told her she was worried about me leaving her or w/e and her mom was like ricky, you love her right? and i was like yes, absolutely, of course, and she was like well elizabeth stop making a big deal out of it, he's not going anywhere, and you're being rediculous, etc
[20:05] R I C K Y 28269: which is what i was trying to tell her all along lol
[20:05] R I C K Y 28269: hey maybe that's the solution!
[20:05] R I C K Y 28269: wait, what was the problem again?
[20:05] R I C K Y 28269: *scrolls up*
[20:05] R I C K Y 28269: oh yeah
[20:05] rasmusrockergal7: hhaha
[20:05] R I C K Y 28269: lol
[20:05] R I C K Y 28269: hmm... i dunno.
[20:06] R I C K Y 28269: and of course, i got home and thought about how i could show her and it all ends up with buying stuff for her... buying her gummy bears, or taking her out somewhere... and i don't really want to go and buy something just to make her feel better
[20:06] R I C K Y 28269: she has to trust me...
[20:07] rasmusrockergal7: well, in her defense, you are her longest relationship, and the biggest relationship and everything, she is probably feeling really insecure right now
[20:07] R I C K Y 28269: she called me today at 4pm, woke me up from a nap, and told me to come over because she had bought me a cookout shake. while i probably would have preferred sleeping, i came over because i knew she wanted me to and she wouldn't take no for an answer
[20:07] rasmusrockergal7: of course
[20:07] R I C K Y 28269: i mean, is it my fault that sometimes i just want to be alone?
[20:07] rasmusrockergal7: of course not
[20:08] rasmusrockergal7: if you want some down time though, you just have to be straight up with her
[20:08] R I C K Y 28269: but she wants me to always be around her and sure i love being with her but i can last a day without seeing here, whereas she cannot.
[20:08] rasmusrockergal7: thats like, a huge problem with a lot of relationships- seeing too much of each other
[20:08] R I C K Y 28269: and yet she thinks that if we're not seeing each other too much then we're seeing each other too little lol
[20:09] rasmusrockergal7: hmm..
[20:09] R I C K Y 28269: you really need to hear her side of the story though
[20:09] rasmusrockergal7: well, that does sound like our puckett